Learning Module

Happiness

MEET YOUR LECTURER

LAURIE SANTOS

Laurie R. Santos is the Chandrika and Ranjan Tandon Professor of Psychology and Head of Silliman College at Yale University.

In addition to her work on the evolutionary origins of human cognition, Laurie is an expert on the science of happiness and the ways in which our minds lie to us about what makes us happy. Her Yale course, Psychology and the Good Life, teaches students how the science of psychology can provide important hints about how to make wiser choices and live a life that’s happier and more fulfilling. The class became Yale’s most popular course in over 300 years, with almost one out of four students enrolled. Her course has been featured in the New York Times, NBC Nightly News, The Today Show, GQ Magazine, Slate and O! Magazine. The online version of the class—The Science of Well-Being on Coursera.org—has attracted more than 4 million learners from around the world.

A winner of numerous awards both for her science and teaching, she was recently voted as one of Popular Science Magazine’s “Brilliant 10” young minds, and was named in Time Magazine as a “Leading Campus Celebrity.” Her podcast, The Happiness Lab, is a top-3 Apple podcast which has attracted 85+ million downloads since its launch.

MEET YOUR LECTURER

Tamar Szabó Gendler

Tamar Szabó Gendler is Yale University’s Dean of the Faculty of Arts and Sciences, the Vincent J. Scully Professor of Philosophy, and Professor of Psychology and Cognitive Science.

Professor Gendler’s work in the philosophy of psychology, epistemology, and metaphysics has earned her many fellowships from foundations such as the Andrew W. Mellon Foundation and the National Science Foundation. Her 2008 essay, entitled “Alief and Belief,” was selected by the Philosopher’s Annual as one of the best articles published in Philosophy that year.

Lessons

1.

Will Reaching Our Goals Make Us Happy?

2.

How Do Scientists Measure Happiness?

3.

Is Happiness Just about Feeling Good?

4.

Is Happiness Just about Getting What You Want?

5.

How Well Can We Predict Our Feelings?

6.

Why Don’t Better Circumstances Make Us Happier?

7.

Is Overcoming Inner Conflict the Key to Happiness?

8.

What Does Inner Harmony Look Like?

9.

What Evidence-Based Steps Can We Take to Become Happier?

10.

How Can Our Friends Help Us Build the Habits of a Happy Life?

Module Introduction

All of us aim to find happiness, but our attempts to achieve it frequently fail. Working hard to improve our circumstances often leaves us less happy than we started out. Why is this? And how can we do better? In this module, we’ll follow an inquisitive character named Maya as she explores the science and philosophy of happiness with the help of two Yale scholars.

Drawing on the growing body of empirical research on the topic, Dr. Laurie Santos (Professor of Psychology and Head of Silliman College) guides learners through key conclusions from the science of happiness to provide an empirically grounded understanding of how happiness works and what we can do to live happier lives.

Coming at the topic from a philosophical angle is Dr. Tamar Gendler (Dean of the Faculty of Arts and Sciences, Vincent J. Scully Professor of Philosophy, and Professor of Psychology and Cognitive Science), who introduces us to different ways philosophers define happiness, and helps us use these conceptions to think about how to apply the results of empirical research to our own lives.

In the first lesson, Dr. Santos begins our journey by introducing Maya to research showing that improvements in material conditions have limited effects on happiness. In the second, she helps her understand how researchers define and measure happiness. These definitions lead to some philosophical questions about what happiness is.

We enter the philosophical side of this investigation in the third lesson, as Dr. Gendler presents the perspective of philosophical hedonism, which holds that happiness is primarily a matter of feeling good and enjoying life. In the fourth, Dr. Gendler guides Maya through a different conception of happiness, which holds that happiness is all about fulfilling your deepest desires.

Next, Dr. Santos introduces Maya to research showing that most of us are pretty bad at predicting how changes in our lives will impact our happiness, and describes some of the psychology underneath this limitation. In the sixth lesson, she helps us understand the cognitive biases that explain why improvements in income and circumstances usually fail to improve our happiness as much as we think they will.

In the remaining lessons of the module, Maya learns about another, and seemingly more effective, approach to the pursuit of happiness, drawing on both ancient philosophical insights and cutting-edge research.

Establishing a core assumption behind this alternative approach, the seventh lesson introduces the dual systems model of the mind, comparing it with earlier theories from Freud and Plato. These similar views all suggest that conflict among the different parts of our minds is a major impediment to happiness, bringing us to the eighth lesson, in which Maya explores the ancient idea that a certain kind of inner harmony — where each of our parts is functioning as it should — is the key to happiness.

Getting our parts in line, however, is easier said than done. It requires changing our habits. Thus, in the ninth lesson, Dr. Santos discusses several habits, or practices, that have been shown by researchers to reliably improve happiness. And in the tenth and final lesson, Dr. Gendler helps Maya see the deep importance of friendship in the effort to change her habits and put herself on the path to genuine and lasting happiness.

Learning Outcomes

By the end of this module, you will be able to:

  • Challenge the common view that improvements in our material condition are the main key to improving our happiness.
  • Use contemporary research on how our minds work behind the scenes to understand why efforts to achieve happiness often fail.
  • Give examples of practices that have been empirically shown to boost happiness.
  • Evaluate different philosophical theories of happiness.
  • Explain happiness as a certain kind of harmonious relationship between the different parts of ourselves.
  • Reflect on yourself and your experiences to clarify what happiness means to you, assess your own level of happiness, and identify happiness practices to test out in your own life.

Self-reflection

1. How important is it to you to be happier than you are now?
2. How much control do you have over your future happiness?
LESSON ONE

Will Reaching Our Goals Make Us Happy?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Recall what research says about how happiness is affected by our genetics and circumstances.
  • Distinguish items that count as evidence for the lesson’s main claim from items that don’t.
  • Identify a critical question to ask when interpreting the results of happiness research.
  • Evaluate the lesson’s argument by reflecting on how happiness is generated in your own life.

Self-reflection

1. Which of the following would you expect to bring the most happiness to your life? (Choose two.)

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Comprehending the argument

What’s the role of genetics in determining our happiness?

Genes play a partial role.

What we have and, especially, what we do also impact our happiness.

Can we increase our happiness by improving our circumstances?

Not as much as expected,

unless we’re in a particularly bad situation.

What’s one question to ask before using happiness research to guide our pursuit of happiness?
How is “happiness

defined in these studies?

1. What empirical evidence is given to support the claim that improving our life circumstances won’t make us much happier?

Please select 2 correct answers

Correct! Wrong!

Evaluating the argument

At the start of this lesson, you were asked which of these scenarios would likely bring the most happiness to your life: 

  • Having a job that gives you high social status
  • Being married to someone you truly love
  • Being someone who can always see the bright side in a situation and grow from it
  • Having success in a job that is centered on being kind and helpful to others
  • Having an income that puts you in the top 5% of earners in your country
1. Has this lesson convinced you to think any differently about your previous answer?

Discuss the ideas in this lesson with a friend! Compare experiences and think together critically about which aspects of the argument are convincing, which aren’t, and why.

Explore further

High income improves evaluation of life but not emotional well-being
Daniel Kahneman & Angus Deaton (2010)
Zeroing on the Dark Side of the American Dream: A Closer Look at the Negative Consequences of the Goal for Financial Success
Carol Nickerson, et al. (2003)
LESSON TWO

How Do Scientists Measure Happiness?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Explain how scientists use self-report surveys to measure happiness.
  • Differentiate two key measures of happiness and the different kinds of happiness they prioritize.
  • Analyze a case to identify how it would be scored by the two happiness measures.
  • Appraise the relative value of the two measures by reflecting on your own life and priorities.

Self-reflection

1. Which of the following matters to you the most when you think about the kind of happiness you seek for yourself?

Watch

Comprehending the argument

Comparing the Positive and Negative Affect Schedule (PANAS) with the Satisfaction with Life Scale (SWLS)

1. What’s the difference in the kinds of happiness measured by these surveys?

PANAS
PANAS measures how happy you feel emotionally in your daily life.
SWLS
SWLS measures how happy you are with the way your life is going overall.

2. What’s the difference in the score calculations for these two surveys?

PANAS
PANAS gives two separate scores (each between 10 and 50): one score measures your level of POSITIVE feelings, while the other score measures your level of NEGATIVE feelings.
SWLS
SWLS gives a single score (between 5 and 35) that measures your level of life satisfaction.

3. What’s the difference in what a higher score on these surveys means for your happiness?

PANAS
PANAS gives two scores: a higher score for POSITIVE affects means GREATER happiness, but a higher score for NEGATIVE affects means LOWER happiness.
SWLS
SWLS gives just one score: a higher score for life satisfaction ALWAYS means GREATER happiness.

4. How do these two measures apply to a concrete case? 

For the past few years Oliver has been working hard on his idea for a startup company, excited about where it might lead. He loves the work and has met some interesting people along the way. Although he still hasn’t had much success with this project or with other parts of his personal life, Oliver rarely feels very upset about it. He realizes that things aren’t ideal for him, but he’s fairly comfortable with the current conditions of his life, and he’s proud of how determined he is to keep pursuing his dreams.

Evaluating the argument

1. Reflecting on your own life and the kind of happiness you personally seek, which score matters the most to you?

Discuss the ideas in this lesson with a friend! Compare experiences and think together critically about which ideas are convincing, which aren’t, and why.

Explore further

Take the Positive and Negative Affect Schedule (PANAS):
How emotionally happy are you?
Take the Satisfaction With Life Scale (SWLS):
How satisfied are you with your life?
Positive Psychology Center: Questionnaires.
Explore other questionnaires measuring happiness and more.
LESSON THREE

Is Happiness Just About Feeling Good?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Explain the idea that happiness is about maximizing pleasure and minimizing pain (philosophical hedonism).
  • Summarize Epicurus’s argument that to be happy we should forgo indulgent pleasures and focus on our basic needs.
  • Distinguish a version of hedonism that counts all pleasures equally from one that treats some pleasures as more valuable than others.

Self-reflection

Philosophers have been debating the nature of happiness for thousands of years. According to the ancient theory known as philosophical hedonism, happiness is about living the most enjoyable life you can.

1. What would make your life most enjoyable?

2. Sometimes, enjoying yourself in the present moment means you’ll suffer more in the future. Here are some examples. Can you think of more?

  • Overeating leads to stomach ache.
  • Skipping your study group to go to the movies leads you to fail your exam.
  • Entertaining your friends with a cruel joke leads to hurt feelings and remorse.

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Comprehending the argument

1. Epicurus, the founder of philosophical hedonism, held that the most pleasant life rested on a foundation of

Correct! Wrong!


2. According to a philosophical hedonist, intense and luxurious pleasures are

Correct! Wrong!

Explore further

Epicurus’ Cure for Unhappiness

Jeremy Bentham: Man and Myth

Hedonism & Nozick’s Experience Machine – Shelly Kagan

LESSON FOUR

Is Happiness Just about Getting What You Want?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Explain the idea that happiness is about having your desires satisfied.
  • Apply the desire theory to assess happiness levels.
  • Raise an objection to the desire theory in light of the fact that getting what we want sometimes makes us less happy.

Self-reflection

1. Which of the following circumstances do you most desire to reach and/or maintain in your life?

Choose five items from this list:

Watch

Evaluating the argument

Conflicting Desires

If two desires conflict, that means that if one of them is satisfied, the other one can’t be, and vice versa. You can’t both go out with friends tonight and finish your paper that’s due tomorrow. If you want to do both, you have a pair of conflicting desires. According to the desire theory, conflicting desires are a major impediment to happiness.

Comprehending the argument

1. Maurice knows that a bike ride always makes him happier. According to the desire theory, this means that

Correct! Wrong!


2. According to the desire theory, why is enjoying life such an important component of happiness?

Correct! Wrong!


3. Sometimes people want things that seem to make them unhappy. How can the desire theory explain this fact?

Correct! Wrong!

Explore further

Theories of Well-Being — Daniel Hausman

History of consumerism – The School of Life

“Well-Being”
Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy

Well-Being – Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy (SEP)

LESSON FIVE

How Well Can We Predict Our Feelings?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Recall the name and function of several psychological tendencies involved in affective forecasting.
  • Apply the idea of immune neglect to explain the decision made in a case example.
  • Evaluate the given evidence that we are susceptible to impact bias in our affective forecasting.
  • Reflect critically on your own intuitive guesses about how certain life changes would make you feel.

Self-reflection

1. Imagine that you get your dream job, whatever that is. How happy would you expect to be after a year in the job?

2.  Now imagine that you and your current best friend get into a terrible argument that ends your relationship. How happy would you expect to be a year after the end of this friendship? 

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Comprehending the argument

What does it mean to say that we are susceptible to impact bias in our affective forecasting?
When we try to predict how we’d feel after good or bad changes in our lives, we tend to overestimate the intensity and duration of these feelings.
How does immune neglect explain why a talented soccer player settles for a safe career, abandoning her true passion?
Neglecting how her psychological immune system would pick her back up if she failed in pursuit of her passion, she decides not to risk it.
An aspiring actor dreams of stardom, only thinking of its glamor, not its everyday moments. What tendency distorts his forecasts?
Focalism

Evaluating the argument

At the start of this lesson, you were asked to estimate how happy you’d be after a year in your dream job, and how happy you’d be a year after the dramatic end of your relationship with your best friend.

1. If this lesson has convinced you that you might have overestimated how much these events would impact your happiness, what evidence affected you the most?
Discuss the ideas in this lesson with a friend! Compare experiences and think together critically about which aspects of the argument are convincing, which aren’t, and why.

Explore further

Miswanting: Some problems in the forecasting of future affective states.
Daniel T. Gilbert & Timothy D. Wilson (2000)
Anticipated versus actual reaction to HIV test results.
Elaine M. Sieff et al. (1999)
Focalism: A Source of Durability Bias in Affective Forecasting.
Timothy D. Wilson, et al. (2000)
Immune neglect: A source of durability bias in affective forecasting.
Daniel T. Gilbert et al. (1998)
LESSON SIX

Why Don’t Better Circumstances Make Us Happier?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Recognize the patterns in the way our happiness level fluctuates around a personal set point.
  • Analyze the way in which hedonic adaptation operates—both to highlight its generally detrimental effect on our happiness and to reveal its silver lining.
  • Describe how time spent on social media impacts our happiness.
  • Assess the arguments presented in this lesson by reflecting on the way that considerations of social comparison affect your own decisions.

Self-reflection

1. Assuming that, in each case, you'd be doing a similar job (one that you also happen to like and to be good at), which of these three companies would you most prefer to work for?

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The hedonic treadmill

Studies show that each of us has a genetically-determined set point, or baseline level, of happiness. The hedonic treadmill is the empirically supported idea that whatever happens in our lives to increase or decrease our happiness level, our happiness will soon return to its set point. When we get a promotion, get divorced, have kids, or experience any other notable gain or loss in our life, we get an initial spike—either positive or negative—in our happiness level. However, as time goes on, the feeling of happiness or sadness caused by the change in conditions starts to dissipate until we’re back around our set point of happiness.

Comprehending the argument

Why can hedonic adaptation be both a curse and a blessing to us as we try to achieve emotional happiness?
Curse: When good changes boost our happiness, hedonic adaptation gradually drops us back toward our set point.
Blessing: When bad changes bring down our happiness, hedonic adaptation gradually lifts us back toward our set point.
Why do we undermine our happiness when we spend a lot of time on social media?
More time on social media means more exposure to reference points that make our lives seem unexciting by comparison. This brings our happiness down a lot more than it’s increased by seeing people whose lives appear less exciting than ours.

Evaluating the argument

At the start of this lesson, you were asked which company you’d most want to work at:

  • Company A, where you make $50,000, while most of your peers make $40,000.
  • Company B, where you make $70,000, while most of your peers make $85,000.
  • Company C, where you make $60,000 and have no clue what your peers earn.
1. Has this lesson led you to think any differently about your earlier answer?
Discuss the ideas in this lesson with a friend! Compare experiences and think together critically about which aspects of the argument are convincing, which aren’t, and why.

Explore further

Reexamining Adaptation and the Set Point Model of Happiness
(Richard E. Lucas, et al.)
Is more always better?: A survey on positional concerns.
Social comparison, social media, and self-esteem.
LESSON SEVEN

Is Overcoming Inner Conflict the Key to Happiness?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Explain the dual process model of the mind.
  • Interpret the concept of inner conflict using Plato’s model of the soul, Freud’s distinction between ego and id, and the dual process model of the mind.
  • Describe the relationship between inner conflict and unhappiness.

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Comprehending the argument

2. Plato and Freud both thought that the mind was divided into parts. Which part in each of their schemes is most like System 2?

a. Plato

Correct! Wrong!

b. Freud

Correct! Wrong!


3. Plato compared the soul to a chariot being driven by two horses. The point of this analogy is that:

Correct! Wrong!

Explore further

Nobel Prize-winning psychologist Daniel Kahnemann talks about the dual processing theory of the mind, which he helped to pioneer.

“Plato’s Theories of Soul”
Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy

SEP entry on ancient theories of the soul.

LESSON EIGHT

What Does Inner Harmony Look Like?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Explain psychological harmony by analogy with physical health.
  • Describe the strengths, weaknesses, and ideal roles of System 1 and System 2 in the dual processing model of the mind.
  • Summarize the relationship between happiness and inner harmony.

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Comprehending the argument

1. What is the point of Plato’s comparison of a harmonious soul to a healthy body?

Correct! Wrong!



3. According to the video, which of these techniques is the most effective way to get System 1 to act in our best interests:

Correct! Wrong!

LESSON NINE

What Evidence-based Steps Can We Take To Become Happier?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Understand how building the right mental habits through certain empirically-supported behavioral practices is an effective way to boost happiness.
  • Distinguish a growth mindset from a fixed mindset and understand how this difference impacts happiness.
  • Compare two activities to determine which better leverages situation support in pursuit of behavioral change.
  • Draw on personal reflection to evaluate several happiness practices and select the most promising one(s) to test out in your own life.

Self-reflection

1. Which of these practices is most likely to contribute to your emotional happiness? (Choose two.)

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Comprehending the argument

1. According to the description in the video, what’s the difference between a growth mindset and a fixed mindset?

Correct! Wrong!

2. Researchers who study behavioral change have found that people are more successful in making a desired change in behavior when they design an environment for themselves (or happen to be in one) that encourages and reinforces the new behavior over the old one—in other words, when their environment is giving them situation support. (For example, see Brian Wansink et al., 2016. “Slim by design: kitchen counter correlates of obesity.”)

Which of the following is a better example of how Maya might find situation support to help her start meditating on a regular basis?

Correct! Wrong!

Some other practices to create internal change for greater happiness

Loving-kindness meditation

Loving-kindness meditation is a form of meditation in which you practice generating warm and caring feelings for yourself and others, sometimes including people toward whom you usually have cold or hostile feelings. This kind of meditation has been shown to create lasting changes in how we see ourselves and others, increasing our capacity for compassion and boosting our emotional happiness. For an important study, see Barbara L. Fredrickson, et al. (2008), “Open hearts build lives: positive emotions, induced through loving-kindness meditation, build consequential personal resources.

Prioritizing experiences over things

Research shows that when we spend our money with the purpose of gaining enjoyable or otherwise valuable experiences, we get a greater increase in happiness than when we spend this money simply to acquire valued material items. Compared to materialistic purchases, experiential purchases make us feel more alive and aren’t as easily subject to social comparison. They also don’t last as long, making them less susceptible to hedonic adaptation. See, for example, the study by Robert T. Howell and Graham Hill (2009), “The mediators of experiential purchases: Determining the impact of psychological needs satisfaction and social comparison.

Sleep and exercise

Getting adequate sleep and exercise can make a big difference in your happiness level. For a study on the value of exercise to your well-being, see Michael Babyak et al. (2000), “Exercise treatment for major depression: maintenance of therapeutic benefit at 10 months,” discussed in this Monitor on Psychology journal article on the psychological importance of exercise.”

Evaluating the argument

This lesson introduced you to a number of practices that have been empirically shown to increase emotional happiness.

1. In light of this lesson, which of the following are you most motivated to start doing (or do more of) to support your emotional happiness? (Choose two.)
Take the next step and find out more about the happiness practices discussed in this lesson. Then choose one and try it out for a month to see if you feel any happier. You can even get scientific about it. Take the PANAS questionnaire before starting your experiment. Take it again at the end, and compare your before and after scores to see if doing the practice made any difference. Who knows? Maybe you’ll enjoy the practice and want to keep it going—or feel motivated to try out another one!

 

And, as always, share these ideas and experiences with a friend, and be ready to learn from their experiences too!

Explore further

Spending money on others promotes happiness (Elizabeth Dunn et al., 2008).
Elizabeth Dunn et al. (2008)
How can mindfulness help us? (TEDx Talk by Hedy Kober 2017).
TEDx Talk: Hedy Kober (2017)
LESSON TEN

How Can Our Friends Help Us Build the Habits of a Happy Life?

By the end of this lesson, you will be able to do the following:

  • Explain the significance of social relationships for establishing habits.
  • Distinguish friendships of virtue from other social relationships.
  • Sketch the impact of positive relationships on good character and future happiness.

Comprehending the argument

1. According to the video, which one of the following reasons explains that social relationships are powerful influences on our habit formation?

Correct! Wrong!


2. Which statement best describes what Aristotle called a “friendship of virtue”?

Correct! Wrong!


3. According to the video, how do friendships with good people help make us happier?

Correct! Wrong!

Explore further

Theories of Well-Being — Daniel Hausman.

History of consumerism – The School of Life.

“Well-Being”
Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy

Well-Being by Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy.

Want to learn more about happiness by Laurie Santos?

The Happiness Lab
Podcast
Course
What psychological science says about happiness
World Economic Forum

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